What is a Disciple?

If you make disciples, you will always get church, but if you make a church you will rarely get disciples.

What exactly are we trying to produce? What does a disciple look like? Your answers to these questions are crucial — they will determine the development strategy that you pursue.

Everyone is a disciple of something and/or someone.

1) A disciple is someone who does certain things.

2) A disciple is someone who understands certain things.

Recently I was sitting pool side for one of my 5 year olds swimming lessons where he is in a small class where the instructor is also teaching a younger instructor-in-training. As I glanced around at the other swimming classes I noticed that many of the classes, not all of them, but most of them, had in-training-instructors. They were helping the other kids in the classes by watching the instructor and then doing the same, action for action, word for word. They were being discipled and teaching at the same time. This happened over and over again through out the 30 minute class. At the end of the class the instructors then evaluated the trainee through verbal and written instructions.

A light bulb went off in my head as I was sitting there with my wife and leaned over to her and said, “When was the last time that you saw this in the church?” She turned and looked at me and said, “What !?! Swimming?” Realizing I had not said my thoughts out loud I then expressed my thoughts. She smiled and she then saw the same thing that I did.

Why does the local Recreational Centre understand and do discipleship for swimming instructors, yet the church cannot even follow the basic function of telling the stories of God to the next generation according to Psalms 78?

Top 5 Initiative

Welcome to Think Youth Ministry’s Top 5 initiative.  Over the next number of weeks we will be tackling various online issues pertaining to youth, including pornography, social media, managing your online presence, mobile device use, etc.  Blog posts will include recommendations for youth, parents, and those who work with youth.  Stay tuned…

Why Are Teen Moms Poor?

This post was originally posted Monday, May 14, 2012 on SLATE.com by Mathew Yglesias

My thoughts: Youth workers who work in urban, suburban and rural areas MUST READ THIS! Mathew Yglesias has profoundly impacted my thoughts and views on teen pregnancy in relation to poverty. I appreciated his honest candour on what is usually a sensitive subject to so many. Many youth organizations that work with teen mom’s or single mom’s, this is a message that needs to be understood on a deeper level and with great clarity.

Enjoy the article:

Surprising new research shows it’s not because they have babies. They have babies because they’re poor.
Delivering the commencement address last weekend at the evangelical Liberty University, Mitt Romney naturally stuck primarily to “family values” and religious themes. He did, however, make one economic observation that intersects with some fascinating new research. “For those who graduate from high school, get a full-time job, and marry before they have their first child,” he said, “the probability that they will be poor is 2 percent. But if [all] those things are absent, 76 percent will be poor.”
These are striking numbers, but they raise the age-old question of correlation and causation. Does this mean that the representative high-school dropout would be doing much better had he stuck it out in school for a few more years? Or is it instead the case that the population of high-school dropouts is disproportionately composed of people who have attributes that lead to low earnings?
When it comes to early pregnancy, surprising new evidence indicates that Romney and most everyone else have it backward: Having a baby early does not hamper a young woman’s economic prospects, as Romney implies. Rather, young women choose to become mothers because their economic outlook is so objectively bleak.

The problem of teen/single/unwed motherhood is one of the relatively few issues liberals and conservatives seem to be able to agree on these days. The right is more likely to pitch the issue in terms of marital status (“single moms”) and the left in terms of simple age (“teen moms”), but both sides reach the same basic conclusion. Raising a child is difficult. Raising a child without help from a partner is very difficult. Doing it at an early age is going to substantially disrupt one’s educational or economic life at a critical moment, with potentially devastating consequences for one’s lifetime. Therefore, preventing early nonmarital pregnancies (whether through liberal doses of contraception and sex education, or the conservative prescription of abstinence cheerleading) would seem universally desirable.

But perhaps we’re approaching the problem from the wrong direction, according to Melissa Kearney and Phillip Levine in a new paper “Why is the Teen Birth Rate in the United States So High and Why Does It Matter?” published in the spring issue of the Journal of Economic Perspectives.

They conclude that “being on a low economic trajectory in life leads many teenage girls to have children while they are young and unmarried and that poor outcomes seen later in life (relative to teens who do not have children) are simply the continuation of the original low economic trajectory.” In other words, it is a mistake to the leap from the observation that women who gave birth as teenagers are poor to the view that they’re poor because they gave birth. Lexus owners are much richer than the average American, but that doesn’t mean the average person can get ahead by buying a Lexus. Women with better economic opportunities tend to do a good job of avoiding childbirth.

Kearney and Levine used data on miscarriages to isolate the impact of giving birth from background characteristics that may contribute to a decision to give birth. When used this way as a statistical control, the negative consequences of teen childbirth appear to be small and short-lived. Young women who gave birth and young women who miscarried have similarly bleak economic outcomes. Similarly, when you compare teen mothers not to the general population but to their own sisters who aren’t teen moms “the differences are quite modest.”

The researchers also discovered that very few policies appear to affect teen birth rate, including abortion policies and sex ed. (Although stingier welfare benefits do appear to cut birthrates a bit.)
What really causes birthrates to vary are demographics and state-level economic variables. In particular, teen girls whose mothers have little education are much more likely to give birth than girls with better-educated mothers. Even more interesting is the way that economic inequality amplifies nonmarital births to teen moms. In particular, “women with low socioeconomic status have more teen, nonmarital births when they live in higher-inequality locations, all else equal.” The measure of inequality used here is not the fabled gap between the 1 percent and the 99 percent, but the gap between the median income and incomes at the 10th percentile. It measures, in other words, the gap between poor people and the local average household. It may be a proxy for how plausible it would be for a girl from a low-income household to rise into the middle class. The more difficult that rise seems, the more births there are to unmarried teens.
The upshot is that teen motherhood is much more a consequence of intense poverty than its cause. Preaching good behavior won’t do anything to reduce its incidence, and even handing out free birth control won’t contribute meaningfully to solving economic problems. Instead, family life seems to follow real economic opportunities. Where poor people can see that hard work and “playing by the rules” will reward them, they’re pretty likely to do just that. Where the system looks stacked against them, they’re more likely to abandon mainstream norms. Those who do so by becoming single teen moms end up fairing poorly in life, but those bad outcomes seem to be a result of bleak underlying circumstances rather than poor choices.

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How to Resign with Grace & Dignity

Below is an informational letter that youth pastor Mark Strickland sent to his congregation. His letter is filled with a clear sense of grace and dignity. His honest letter is an excellent way to inform your congregation that you will be leaving.

What are some points you can take from Mark’s letter? What would you have done differently?

Monday April 23rd, 2012

To the Elders, Deacons, Members, Families, and Teens of Milton Bible Church:

This letter is difficult to compose as I write today to inform you that Wendy and I plan to resign from our positions at Milton Bible Church as of Saturday June 30th, 2012.

I (Mark) have been offered acceptance into Teacher’s College at Tyndale University, starting in July and have accepted that offer.  Going to Teacher’s College will be a career change for me as I plan to pursue teaching over the next season of my life.

Our journey to this decision point has been a long one.  We have enjoyed our years of ministry at MBC and love the people in this church.  Over the past eight years we have experienced highs and lows in ministry, but about a year ago both Wendy and I began to feel a strong stirring that persisted in our hearts.  As we talked and prayed about it, it became clear to us last December that God was pushing us towards a new chapter in our life.  Although I have enjoyed serving as a pastor, I did not feel a strong calling to continue in vocational ministry.  A desire of my heart had always been to teach and as Wendy and I prayed about our future I decided to try applying to Teacher’s College atTyndale University.  In late February of 2012 I was invited for an interview at the school.  I had that interview in March 2012 and I was offered acceptance into the Bachelor of Education program in mid-April.  Wendy, who is already a teacher by profession, has been applying to public school boards and Christian Schools over the past month.  We are hopeful that she will find work, and we believe that God will provide the right opportunity at the right time.  We plan to sell our home in Milton and move closer to Tyndale University by late August.

I cannot emphasize how much we have enjoyed being a part of Milton Bible Church.  MBC goes way beyond being a workplace for us and we consider all of you a part of our family.  You have loved our family and have treated us with exceptional kindness.  We can only hope that we served you well over the years.

God has done incredible things in our time here and I know he will continue to move in amazing ways in the future of MBC.  Jim and Mary have been fantastic mentors for Wendy and I, and I know that we would not be the leaders we are today without their example, mentoring, and leadership in our lives.

In youth ministry, there is never a good time for a youth pastor to leave.  When I started eight years ago, I vowed to not be a 1 or 2 year youth pastor, here today, gone tomorrow.  I’m happy I’ve been able to spend so many years ministering to youth in this community.  But the hardest part of God’s leading in all of this will be leaving the amazing students we work with.  We love all of you and pray you will understand that God has a plan in all of this for you, too!  In this upcoming season I challenge you to be strong, trust the Lord, trust the church, and trust those who come after Wendy and I!

I am confident that the Lord has a bright future for MBC, particularly in the areas of children and youth.  Those who come after us will take these areas to another level.  I am confident that God has a plan for some of you in this, too!

A scripture that strikes me as summing things up is this one:

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, whohave been called according to his purpose.  Romans 8:28

I pray all of us will strive to live in His calling and purpose!

In Christ,

Mark and Wendy Strickland

The Millennial Teenager – Infographic

For those who grew up in a world of rotary phones and dial-up Internet, it is hard to imagine that most teenagers today have no recollection of life before cell phones. In fact, these Millennials have had so much exposure to technology, cell phones and laptops and iPods have become common aspects of everyday life. Which might explain why 94 percent of Millennials have cell phones, and 70 percent have laptops.

Are you confused by how this generation interacts with one another? Wondering what life is like for these technology-obsessed teens? The OnlineSchools.com infographic offers a detailed look at the tech-savvy world of todays teens and shows the old fogies what they are missing.

The Millennial Teenager
Courtesy of: Online Schools

Ministry Tragedy

Pastor Shannon Wheaton, his wife Trena and their youngest son, Benjamin, were among seven people who died Friday in a head-on collision on Highway 63 in Alberta.

The couple’s oldest son, three-year-old Timothy, survived only minor injuries.

Sunday’s service was anything but ordinary at Wheaton’s church, the Family Christian Centre in Fort McMurray.

Some members of the congregation were in tears as they left the church. One member told reporters that they were trying their best to explain the tragedy to the children, but that it was difficult for the youngest ones to comprehend the tragedy.

Services were also held Sunday at church in Newfoundland, where Wheaton was originally from.

Church website – www.familychristiancentre.org

 

Thank You Mom

REMIX

I’ve never really been good at math and I know that I’ll have to probably get a math tutor for my son at some point, but when I look at the math associated with REMIX it is hard to deny that it makes sense and it’s clear that this is not your typical trip to Toronto.

5000 students + 300 youth groups = 15 years

Local Focus = Global Impact

REMIX is an inner-city mission trip and this should be your mission trip.

Churches are using REMIX as the beginning training ground for their students to get the basics before they go out on an overseas mission trip. This is an excellent way for you and your students do life together before you take that them overseas. Chris Folmsbee loves REMIX and what they have going on in Toronto each year.

This is one mission trip that should be on your youth ministry radar for training your students to know how to…

live out the mission and message of Jesus.

By figuring it out locally so they can have a global impact in the future.

This is one mission trip I highly recommend and that’s why I have been personally involved with it for the past four years.

 

Day of Silence 2012 in Youth Ministry

The Day of Silence is something that is misunderstood in youth ministries today. There are many questions that surround it and with

each question more are brought up by others trying to understand what it is.

Here are two posts I would recommend you read to gain a better understanding of what your students will experience during the Day of Silence at their school.

Day of Silence by Think Youth Ministry

What’s a Christian to do on the Day of Silence by Dare2Share

 

 

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